A friend and I once put a man size hole in another friends basement wall because we were play fighting. I honestly can't say what happened after that. We were never reprimanded for making the crater nor has my friends parents ever said or done anything to make us think he hates us. I imagined that If my kids friends did that, I would either let them know about my malcontent feelings OR I would foster a bitter anger within. I'm tempted to assume that my friends Dad will one day get retribution.